FAQ

Where will we meet?

I am primarily based in Los Angeles, so I am able to meet you in the LA area at a 4 or 5 star hotel: I can either come to yours or I can arrange for the incall location, details here. Please take the following into consideration when booking beyond 15 miles outside central LA:
Calabasas, Westlake Village, South Bay (or other areas 15-29 miles surrounding LA)
2 hour booking minimum, please add $200 travel fee
Orange County (or other areas exceeding 30 miles from LA)
3 hour minimum, please add $300 travel fee
Santa Barbara, Palm Springs, San Diego (or other areas of comparable driving times)
4 hour minimum, please add $400 travel fee, coverage of hotel cost, and 50% deposit

I am also available to travel to you or with you! FMTY (Fly Me To You) is a great option for a busy gentleman who prefers to have everything at his doorstep. Please see below for specifics.

I occasionally tour cities outside of LA, of which I will share dates on my twitter and via subscribed newsletter list, but if you would like for me to consider touring your city, please email to let me know!

What is FMTY?

Fly Me To You is an arrangement where I travel to you or with you on special request, and trust me: I LOVE to travel!
While I occasionally tour, I may not have plans to come to your city, and you may not have the time, opportunity, (or patience) to wait for my plans to unfold or to travel to LA yourself. I love to discover new places, so I am delighted for you to share your city with me! Take me to your favorite spots and let me learn even more about you. I am also available to meet you on your business trip or we can plan an adventure or vacation together. I have some suggestions for vacation and destination dates in my blog posts to get your imagination flowing!
When inquiring about a FMTY, please be prepared to cover my travel costs for business or first class flights and appropriate hotel costs if I need to fly in the night before or morning after our date. if it is more than a 24 hour arrangement then please consider the comfort of booking a separate room. Please also be prepared to send a 50% deposit in advance of my travel.

What do I need to know to prepare for overnights and multi-day dates?

If we are spending more than 24 hours together, I will need a couple of hours of personal time per day. This ensures that I am at my best for you throughout the length of our date: resting, yoga, girl stuff, and checking in on personal matters. I really love the opportunity to spend several days together, and there are daily routines that I try to maintain so that I am healthy and happy, whether we are spending 4 hours or 72 hours together. I usually try to plan this around any work obligations you may have, so if you are on calls or have things you need to check in on also, it works out seamlessly!

Beyond one night together, I also ask that you consider whether a separate room is a better option, and at the very minimum, a bedroomed suite if you are an early riser. My body and brain require 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep to function well the next day so if you know that you have disruptive sleep patterns, we will both be more comfortable in a separate bed. I promise that it does not ruin our intimate connection and will make the morning reunion even sweeter!

Do you work with couples?

Yes! I love meeting couples and as a bi-sexual, I am an experienced and enthusiastic lover of both men and women. It is important that all parties are included in the planning and I will be screening both of you.

Do you have friends that can join on our date?

I love threesomes and I love having a friend join in! If you have your eye on someone, I can reach out on our behalf and plan the party, or I can join you and another of your favorites on your next date. I prefer to have a first date with you before agreeing to bringing in a friend, so that I understand what you’re looking for and can recommend someone that will be a perfect complement to us.

What information should I include in my first email to you?

I love to hear a little bit about you! This is the beginning of a delightful relationship and it’s a great start to tell me what drew you to me and why you think we will get along well. It speeds the booking process along to include your screening information in the first contact as well - I will never agree to a date and time without screening first, so the sooner we get that out of the way the sooner we can plan our time together.

What screening information do you require and why?

I request that you send me:
1. your legal first and last name
2. your phone number that is registered to this name
3. Photo of your government issued photo ID
OR
Professional profile ex. LinkedIn, or company website bio that shows both your face and name 
4. References are not a requirement, but if you have seen providers in the last 6 months and would like to send their references, it certainly helps! Please provide their website and/or twitter handle

What do you do with the information I send you, how do I know it is secure?

Knowing who you are is one step toward ensuring my safety, and I’m sure you can understand and appreciate why I prioritize safety above everything else and would like to know who I am meeting. Once I receive your screening info, I do not store it anywhere and the email is deleted.
Anything you send to my protonmail email address is end-to-end encrypted. I also use Signal and Telegram, which are safe and secure encrypted platforms, so if you prefer to communicate via those apps, please reach out and I will share my handles with you.
If you have further concerns about privacy, I am willing and able to sign an NDA.

Are you newbie friendly?

Absolutely! I understand that you likely have a lot of questions, and I am happy to answer them! I’m a very patient and understanding human, so if you missed some details listed on my site I will gracefully guide you in the right direction. I also recommend booking a first date that allows for drinks or dinner at the start, so we can spend time getting to know each other and growing the comfort level over some laughs and stories.

Why can’t I see your face before deciding to book you?

Discretion is incredibly important to me, as I’m sure it is to you! Staying discreet and low profile behooves us both, and ensures that the only people who would recognize me as Selene are people who I have entrusted my time with. I can assure you that I have a beautiful face and beautiful eyes, and you will only be happily surprised upon first meeting.

Do you have reviews?

No. This goes against my code of discretion. If I learn that you have written a review about me, consider that the end of our time together. If you are unsure about whether we will be a good match, the best way to find out is to meet me: you will only truly know if you find out for yourself! I try to share a lot about myself both on this website and on my socials (especially twitter) so that you have a good idea of who I am, what I like, and the kind of lover that I am. If you have specific questions or requests, please just ask me.

What is your deposit policy?

I typically do not require deposits for local dates 2-4 hours in length, as I prefer to keep all payments in cash. I am trusting that you respect my time and will let me know in a reasonable advance (24 hours) if you need to cancel.
For dates longer than 4 hours, I ask for 20% deposit, and I will let you know upon booking what your options are for sending digitally.
Please provide the balance at the beginning of our date, in an envelope or inside of a book or gift. If we are beginning our date at dinner etc, please make this presentation in a discreet manner.
FMTY deposits are 50%, to be sent once we confirm details, and I will give you options for sending.
Deposits are non-refundable, but may be transferrable to a new date if the cancellation is 48 hours in advance. I will refund your deposit if cancellation is due to an emergency on my part and you prefer not to transfer it.

What is your cancellation policy?

Life is unpredictable, and work and family things come up - I understand! Let’s reschedule for ASAP!
If you let me know within 48 hours of our date and have sent a deposit, I will transfer it to a new date within 14 days.
If we have a date shorter than 6 hours planned, 24 hours in advance is acceptable.
For FMTY or multi-day dates, I will transfer.a deposit, less any non-transferrable travel costs, to a new booking if you let me know 7 days in advance. There is a lot of planning on my end that goes into multi-days and travel, so I appreciate you understanding that outside of those windows, I will consider your deposit a gift for the inconvenience (aka non-refundable)
For same-day cancellations, I ask for a 50% cancellation fee, and I will let you know your options for sending it digitally.
If I need to cancel for some reason, which rarely happens and would likely be an emergency, I will work with you to reschedule ASAP and transfer/refund any deposits accordingly.

What payment methods do you accept?

Cash is my preference, always. For established regulars, we can discuss consideration of other digital methods, if you have preference for that. For deposits, I will let you know the options for sending digitally once we confirm details.